Monthly Archives: October 2015

Can you believe it?!

 

True or false?

 

Isn’t it easy to fall into the trap of believing what you read and hear? But whether it’s an internet legend, a political sound bite, or gossip about someone, it’s always best to act on the truth. After all, who wants to play the fool for believing a lie?

 

But what about matters of right and wrong? Or the difference between what’s permissible and what’s really beneficial? Maybe you’ve felt like that cartoon showing the person with an angel on one shoulder and a demon on the other, each trying to persuade the person to listen to them. It can be confusing, can’t it? Some things actually sound good but aren’t. Or they are good, but not best for us. How do we decide?

 

The author of 1 John 4 tells us: Test the Spirits.

 

That may sound weird if you are well in tune with your physical body and surrounding and environment but haven’t given much consideration to spiritual matters. But if we hold the bible to be true, we need to accept that, pay attention or not, the world we live in is both physical and spiritual. And just as we can fact check a certain political sound bite or internet claim so we can have understanding of the spirits that seek to influence our lives.

 

The test? The bible says it is only good and true if it agrees with Jesus as the Son of God, Lord of Lords. God cannot contradict himself, so what is good and pure will always agree with what him who is always good and pure, the author of truth itself. Should you believe him? It’s your choice, but as one of the hospital staff recently said,

“I’d rather believe God and find out I was wrong than not believe him and find out he was right!”

 

Some people think we are all God’s children. God truth says, whoever believes in his Son Jesus is his child, and therefore an overcomer of life, a victor. We might think it’s not true because, if we’re honest sometimes we feel defeated and  there’s no hope for us to be happier than we are. But God’s truth says “the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.” Can you believe it?

 

The lie says we can’t know God. God’s truth tells us we have anytime access to the God of the universe who knows us, listens to us, and speaks truth to us through his Spirit. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says get ahead, get even, live a comfortable life. God’s truth says, “Love one another,” because love comes from God. Whoever loves with God’s love knows God because he is love. Whoever doesn’t love, doesn’t know God. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says you are a good person. God’s truth says we all fall short. But he loved you enough to send his Son to make it right with him. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says you are condemned to doubt, fear, anxiety, and shame. God’s truth says, “You are my beloved child. I give you peace.”  Do you really believe it?

 

The lie says you can’t know God; he is far away. God’s truth says if we love one another with his abiding love, he is revealed in that very love. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says you can’t be good enough. God’s truth agrees but offers a solution; he gives his very Spirit to abide in you so you can live in him. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says you can be strong enough on your own. God’s truth says we are strongest when we are weak and learn to rely on his love for all things. Can you believe it?

 

The lie says it’s your right to hold a grudge. God’s truth says if we say we love God but hold grudges and judge others we’re the liars. If we can’t love those we do see, how can we love God who we don’t see? Can you believe it?

 

God is love. It’s what draws us to him. It’s the only thing that drives out all fear and calms our soul when the storms surround us. Can you believe it?  If so, you can turn all your worries over to him and experience his love and peace.

 

True or false? It’s a question we answer hundreds of times each day by what beliefs guide our thoughts and actions.

 

(Reflections on 1 John 4)

 

Lavished love!

 

Everyone I know loves to lavishly love their children and grandchildren. It’s evident when I talk with the hospital staff about their families; their eyes beam. It’s true with the closest of friends too. Marcia and I have been best friends since I was a teenager. A former colleague of mine often commented how my eyes always light up when I refer to her. Of course, it’s by design. We were created to love by the author of love himself, the one who lavishes his children with love.

 

Do you feel lavishly loved as a child of God? That is what we are! Just as we have hopes and good plans for our own children, God has good plans for us. Just as we love our children unconditionally, God lavishes us with his patient love. He continually draws us closer to him so we can be all that we are meant to be. He allows us to freely make poor choices that steal our best joy but he wants so very much more for us, just as you want so very much goodness for your own children. He speaks value and worth and hope into our lives. Oh that we would listen and lavishly love each other in the same way.

 

Part of the love we lavish on our children includes protecting them and nurturing them, helping them to remain pure in a corrupted world. It’s no coincidence that’s God’s good plan for his children too. One of the great tests of love is that we honor each other even when we disagree, even when we’re hurt. If we have neglectful or harmful habits, we stop them, not letting our own rights impede the love we so long to lavish on others; not letting negative emotions trick us into forgetting God’s promises. We search for ways of building each other up instead of tearing each other down. We commit to a lavish love that pays attention, listens, encourages, and honors. Not surprisingly, that’s God’s model for lavishly loving us.

 

Just as we work to protect our children from harm and watch that they don’t go astray, so it is with our heavenly Father’s concern for us. You’d give your life for your child. God did exactly that by giving us his Son Jesus. He doesn’t just love with words but actions and truth, giving us an example to follow.

 

As I think about my own children, I realize that lavish love believes. It believes in potential and it keeps on believing.

 

Love each other with lavish love.
Let God’s spirit of peace remain in you.
Protect it at all costs.
Keep believing.

 

(Reflections on 1 John 3)

Three yards and a cloud of dust

 

A football blog from Bryan? Really?? Please bear with me!

 

“In our system of government, it’s not about Hail Mary passes. It’s the Woody Hayes school of football  —  three yards and a cloud of dust. Three yards and a cloud of dust. It’s a slow, methodical process.” – John Boehner, reflecting on his time as Speaker of the House.

 

Whatever your political views, Boehner’s comments remind me of the struggles we all face as we etch our way through life’s journey to finding meaning and purpose. As we seek to influence and create positive change in the world we find it’s indeed a slow process often marked by difficult battles and sometimes intense struggles.

 

I wonder, do Boehner’s comments also remind you of your own struggles?  I understand the symbolism of the “Hail Mary” pass, though for me personally, it is actually a deep need to cry, “Dear Jesus.” It’s often prayed in great desperation and in the middle of our strenuous trials. We pray with great hope that If we simply throw ourselves upon the only one who can save us that he will lovingly and miraculously catch us in his receiving arms.

 

But there is also this other image of “three yards and a cloud of dust.”

 

The quote was authored by Woody Hayes, a widely celebrated and accomplished American football coach whose illustrious career ended when he was fired after punching an opponent for intercepting his team’s pass with just minutes left on the championship clock. I read that Hayes’ basic coaching philosophy was that “nobody could win football games unless they regarded the game positively and would agree to pay the price that success demands of a team.” His style was often described as “three yards and a cloud of dust”—in other words, a “crunching, frontal assault of muscle against muscle, bone upon bone, will against will.” – Source: Wikipedia. (God knows I wouldn’t know this stuff!)

 

Sometimes, our life journey and our spiritual walk might seem like that, “three yards and a cloud of dust,” as we seek, all too often in our own power, to move the ball forward at a seemingly great price. We march onto the field with our goals and strategies. We have great plans, convinced we have “the right stuff” to make them come true if only we work hard enough. But then we run up against tremendous offensive forces that push against us. We lose ground, we gain ground, only to get pushed back yet again.

 

Maybe you feel like that right now. Maybe you’re asking yourself, “Is it really worth it?” You know it takes ten yards to create a first down and earn more chances to make progress toward the goal line. If you fail, you surrender the ball and it seems you have to fight the devil to get it back so you can try again to win the game.

 

Is that the way life seems to you?

There’s a better way.

 

I suppose avid sports fans could come up with a catchy football analogy about relying on the God’s “quarterback” to make the calls or of “recruiting God” to help us score the winning point. But as with most all analogies, our attempt to fit God into our little box won’t work. And we never will be the victors if we only cry out for him to help us score the big points in life.

 

Ultimately, doesn’t it come down to surrendering not only the ball but the whole game to the one who owns the franchise? After all, the great kickoff started when God created “the great game.” He made the rules and he is the one who persistently, relentlessly, and lovingly draws us together on his team. We are drafted completely by his choice, not by our own prowess. We can choose to join him or not. We can come reluctantly and just sit on the bench and watch our teammates do the work. Or we can fight the battle, not just with all our effort, but with God fighting the battle for us. It’s his power that will win the big event when he finally bring us into the great championship celebration where we will join all the other victors.

 

So when it seems it’s all “three yards and a cloud of dust,” remember it’s not up to you. Your battle belongs to the Lord. Rely on him to protect you from your adversaries who challenge you and push against you, but will not defeat you. Rely on him to guide your path to victory. Rely on him to strengthen you when you have nothing left to give. Rely on him because he alone is faithful and able and willing to carry you through, in the game and across the goal line.

 

Remaining in joy

 

Complete joy is found in walking with God in his light not in the darkness that envelops us when we go on our way. That way is called sin. It seems fun. Actually, it often IS fun – for awhile. The problem is:

 

The train of sin takes us farther than we want to go and charges us more than we want to pay.

 

We can make our choices but we can’t always choose our consequences. Without God’s forgiveness we are left with repeated defeat, guilt, shame, misery, and despair – in fact, everything that destroys and steals the real joy we thought we were seeking! The author of 1 John 2 tells us there’s a solution: Jesus.

 

If you are caught committing a crime you will end up before a judge. You might get a lawyer who tries to get you out of it, but if you’re convicted the judge will pronounce a sentence of judgment on you. Deal done.

 

But with Jesus, it’s different. Jesus is the perfect advocate who never loses a case when it comes to those who really follow him and know him. Not just know about him but really know him…and to be known by him.

 

Do you know him?  If so, do what he said and did. Jesus loved his Father God and was fully satisfied with him than anything else. He did whatever his father told him. And his father told him to tell us, “Love one another.”

 

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:35

 

If we call ourselves Christian and hate each other and hold grudges or judge others, we better check what God’s Word actually says. We can’t judge others and love him. And we can’t be filled with the love of everything in the world and still fully love God.

 

If you know Jesus, the really good part is that he knows you! He sees you in your pain. He cares for you in your sorrow. He has not forgotten you and will never abandon you…

 

EVEN if it feels that way!

 

This isn’t a new teaching. We’ve always had this command to love God and love others. But what is “new” is that we now have the true light of God, Jesus, to guide us, teach us, empower us, make us victorious over life’s challenges, and bring us lasting joy. We’re not stuck in an endless cycle of turning to him, falling away from him, and going our own way before finally coming back to him. Finding complete joy is a matter of remaining in him.

 

“Remain in me as I remain in you.” – Jesus

 

“As for you, see that what you have heard from the beginning remains in you. If it does, you also will remain in the Son and in the Father. And this is what he promised us—eternal life.” (V 24-25)

 

Do you (really) want complete joy?

 

What brings you real joy?

 

imageAs I visit with hospital staff, we talk about life’s struggles and joys. One staff showed me their family photos, another talked about her passion for nature photography, and others beamed when I asked about their children. We were delighted when our good friend Thuong (pictured with Marcia) came in on her day off to visit us. We became friends nearly three years ago when she delivered supplies to my hospital room. What brings Thuong joy? To make others happy! You can tell that just from seeing her winsome smile and loving hug with Marcia. She has such a dear heart.

 

In 1 John 1, we read the account of Jesus from one of the eye witnesses who saw him face to face, talked with him, ate with him, listened to him, followed him, and no doubt had some great times of sharing his joy. The author of the letter tells us this “to make our joy complete.” (V 4)

 

You might ask, why does Jesus make our joy complete? Aren’t there a lot of people who seem pretty happy without Jesus in their life? Sure. In fact, there are plenty of Christians who should have complete joy but live defeated lives. I know because I used to be one! So what gives?

 

I think one reason the good news of Jesus makes our joy complete is because Jesus spans the entire saga, from beginning to end, of God’s great love story we call The Bible. The gospel of John starts by saying:

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” (John 1:1-5)

 

Throughout the Old and New Testaments, Jesus is the central figure in God’s plan to bring us his complete joy. God knew we would find plenty of ways to find temporary happiness, but only one way to find a joy that is full in this life, despite whatever troubles come upon us, and full for all eternity. For thousands of years, people have been trying to find their way to God through education and knowledge, philosophy, good works,  religion, or by just being a decent person.

 

The problem is we all fall short of the goal. None of us is as good as we think. Certainly, not me. We’re reminded we easily deceive ourselves to thinking we are really good, when in fact we often aren’t. He describes God as “the light” in which there is no darkness. . . at all! There is no way we can live in the dark recesses of our shame, our fears, and anxieties and still walk in God’s light. It’s one or the other if we want complete joy.

 

… Joy made possible through fellowship with the author of our joy, God, and his Son Jesus:

 

“If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and…Jesus, who forgives us from ALL sin.”  (V 6-7)

 

Maybe you’re thinking of some whoppers you think he can’t handle. But you’d be wrong. He can – and will – handle whatever you bring to him with an honest heart and desire to follow him.

 

The answer to finding complete joy isn’t found in a set of religious rules. It’s not uncovered by simply trying to do enough good things to outweigh the selfish and bad ones. It’s certainly not found by searching the world’s libraries of knowledge and philosophy. True and everlasting complete joy is found in one thing:

True fellowship with our loving God, made possible through his Son Jesus.

Fellowship. Not rules.

Free gift from a loving Father, not earned.

It’s yours and mine for the asking, but it’s our choice.

 

Believers or not, we can choose to walk in the darkness of ignoring God, rebelling against him, or even denying his power to give us victory over the things that kill our joy.

 

OR …

 
We can choose to walk in his light, believing him, trusting him, and living the way that will really bring us complete joy…now and forever.