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Great hope for today

Many people have feelings of worthless or low self-esteem.

Looking up at the stars on a clear night has a way of putting our minute lives into perspective. We are quite small in comparison to the vastness of God’s creation. Crises also have a way of humbling us in a most vivid way. At the end of ourselves with no hope for our own ability to solve something like cancer, the loss of a loved one, joblessness, financial ruin, or other catastrophe, we come to realize our profound dependence on God. We realize that our very breaths are measured by Him. And we feel very small in the presence of the creator of the universe, the one who has no beginning or end.

But this smallness, this sense of being unimportant to the grand scheme of things is not the whole picture. There is reason to have great joy and hope right now. For God so loved us that He sent His only begotten Son to rescue us. When? When we were still rebellious sinners, since we were determined to go our own way. God says that to whoever believes in His Son, He gives them the right to be children of God. And not just adopted children but also heirs of His kingdom, an eternal life of joy, a life with no tears or pain or sorrow. And part of that kingdom can be experienced right now. Real joy and hope that starts now and lasts forever!

We are distracted by other things in this world, things we think are greater pleasure. Even in the important and necessary things of life, we forget God, and we forget to thank Him. And how does our great God respond? He graciously waits for us. Why does He love us so? I really don’t know; only that He made us and longs to spend time with us. Just like you long to spend time with your loved ones and feel fulfilled when they choose to spend time with you, God enjoys being with us. I am convinced this is partly for His pleasure but also because He desires the very best for us. Admittedly, don’t you want the very best for your life? Don’t you want the very best for those you love? It is found in one place, with God.

In the small and big parts of your life you are of great importance. You are highly valued, esteemed, loved and treasured. So if you are feeling down and unimportant, invite God to your pity party. He will remind you of how precious you are and you will experience more of how awesome our God really is.

Can I Really Change My Thoughts?

It seems we all have patterns of thoughts that are ingrained in us. Likely our life experiences have played a part in what we think about. And yet we seem to be wired to go down certain thought paths. Have you ever noticed two children, both raised in the same home, and one child who tends to think positively and the other who tends to ponder the darker side of things? Or in your own life, are there certain thought processes that seem to dominate how you view and respond to situations? After a lifetime of practiced behavior you might ask, “Can I really change the way I think?” The answer is Yes. But possible does not mean easy. You will be undertaking a revolution of your mind.

Changing thoughts and behaviors requires first a long-term commitment, especially if it involves a change in values. Like everything in life you are making a conscious exchange, swapping that which is customary but harmful for that which is unfamiliar but beneficial. Change begins with a commitment to a renewed mind. (Romans 12:1) If you are not desperate for a change, it likely will not come.

Just as a medium shirt will not fit an extra-large body, more trim and purified thoughts will not fit a mind that is ‘overweight’ with many desires. Not until we decide we WILL put off the thoughts which weigh us down and put on those thoughts that are beneficial to our well-being. (Colossians 3:9-10)

Some thought patterns go against God’s will – and His best – for you. You will not succeed in achieving lasting positive change until you agree with Him and acknowledge your rebellious ways. That was the case with me 32 years ago when I wanted to change my selfish and angry thoughts. Only God could bring about that transformation.

Some practical tips for changing the way you think:
Be careful where you let your thoughts go when you daydream.
Hang out with people whose positive thoughts guide their actions.
Learn to quickly acknowledge the presence of wrong thinking and imagine putting that thought in handcuffs and marching it off to a courtroom, and leave it there. Immediately replace negative thoughts with those that are beneficial.
Don’t dwell in despair. Learn to give thanks.
Train yourself to agree with God on what is good, what is noble, that which is pure and beneficial.

“Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator” (Col. 3:9-10)