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Don’t be a fool

 

It’s April Fool’s Day, the day of pranksters around the western world. Some think it a great day of jokes that are good medicine for the soul. Others see it as inconsiderate and somewhat nasty and denounce the activities that are after all, based on getting someone to believe a lie. Whatever stance you take on April Fool’s Day, there is a hoax of much greater seriousness that is played out every day of every year: the great lies of the devil.

 

He is described as the master of lies, the prince of deception. His favorite activity is to get people to believe a half-truth that is actually a full lie. Myron Rush, in his leadership book Lord of the Marketplace, said the devil’s greatest lie is to convince us that we have two separate lives: a secular life where we work and play; and a sacred life where we worship and pray. It’s a lie we believe when we consider that our beliefs about God are only a part of our life.  The truth, according to God’s Word is that you and I each have just one life to live on earth. If Jesus is the Lord of that, He is the Lord of all. Believing we have two separate lives sets us up for failure. A heart that believes one thing but acts contrary to that is like a house that is divided against itself. It will always fall.

 

Another lie is that if we are good enough, we will please God and go to heaven. It’s the mantra at many funerals, where we don’t know what to say except, “He was a good person.” The lie is the basis of books and films that tell us angels must do a good deed to earn their wings and dead persons are sent back to earth to ‘get things right’ so they can pass through the pearly gates. The truth told in the bible is that we are saved by grace, not by works, lest anyone should boast. It says, “No one is righteous, not one.” “Without faith, it is impossible to please God.” Think about it. If we can be good enough to go to heaven, why did Jesus have to die for our sins? Good works are the natural result of maturing faith and they produce greater faith. They aren’t in themselves the path to heaven.

 

A third lie is that once we’ve come to the saving grace of receiving Jesus as Lord and Savior, that it’s our work to become better Christians. Yes, we’re urged to discipline ourselves on the path to conforming to the image of God. Paul wasn’t pulling a prank on the church at Galatia when he called them fools for believing that they could become righteous by good works. Works is not faith but faith always works. We become transformed by God by the same saving grace that first saved us.

 

There are so many other lies that invite us to bite into them. Don’t be a Forever Fool. Let the bible be your guide so you don’t fall for the lies of the master deceiver.

 

“Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed that he does not fall.” (1 Corinthians 10:12)

 

 

Rational Lies

I confess, I have long been a fan of dry humor and witty puns and homonyms. The cleverest of puns still tickle me because of the unexpected twist that causes my mind to quickly think in a different way.

I discovered one such example years ago when I was contemplating the way I would sometimes “rationalize” things that weren’t true. Have you ever done that? Act or think in a wrong way yet ‘rationalize’ that you are actually right? It is pride’s attempt to excuse the need to look at oneself or a situation through eyes filtered by truth.

Saying the word “rationalize” out loud over and over and ever so slowly, I heard the words “rational lies.” And it occurred to me that while I was trying to rationalize/justify my behavior and thoughts, I was actually telling myself lies that my pride wanted to make rational: hence, rational lies.

Rationality is defined as “the quality or state of being reasonable. (It) implies the conformity of one’s beliefs with one’s reasons to believe, or of one’s actions with one’s reasons for action. A rational decision is one that is not just reasoned, but is also optimal for achieving a goal or solving a problem.”

One problem with human rationality is that our ‘reason’ is often twisted by our desire to solve a problem our own way and to our benefit. We perceive facts and situations through our own filters, not always as they really are. And when our “rationalizing” is based on our internalized and often misguided filtering, believing in “rational lies” is really an irrational behavior…”irrational rationality.”

I gave one example in an earlier blog post when as a small child, I rationalized that my mother had abandoned me in a large department store. After all, I suddenly found myself all alone, frightened and angry. So instead of dealing with the real truth that it was I who had strayed, I ‘rationalized’ that she had left me. With such rationalization, didn’t I have a ‘right’ be angry?

Isn’t it sometimes that way in our relationship with God? We begin to forget God’s presence in our lives, we turn away from His direction and go our own way. Suddenly, we find ourselves in a desperate situation and wonder why God abandoned us. But in reality, we were the ones who abandoned Him.

The way to deal with ‘rational lies’ is to bring them in comparison with Truth. It is the same way bankers examine potentially counterfeit bills; they compare them side by side with the real ones. Consider what ‘rational lies’ you sometimes believe and bring them to the One True God today. Let Him help you compare them to His truth.

“Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, handling accurately the word of truth.” 2 Timothy 2:15

Let Go of the Lie!

Ann Voskamp wrote a most relevant essay, Let Go of the Lie. In it she relates vignettes from childhood that grew up into adulthood. And they all began with a lie that she believed. You and I can relate to that.

We have been subjected to lies ever since the serpent twisted the truth in the garden with his first lie: “Did God really say…” One question and the seed of doubt is planted, ready to take root if we let it, ready to destroy our life or at least steal our joy. Throughout our lives we have confronted lies about ourselves:
You are not good at anything.
You’re not smart enough.
You’re ugly.
You are not worthy.
You’re damaged goods.
Nobody likes you.

And we’ve been surrounded by lies about the nature of the world, the purpose of our lives, and the character of God. Voskamp says, “There can be lies about ready to poison you wherever you turn.” Bite into the lie and it bites back, injecting poisonous venom into the mind. “The truth will set you free.” Ah yes, but only if we believe it and apply it to our lives. You can not be free by holding on to a part of the truth and all of a lie.

Voskamp advocates, “Turn around and shake off that snake
Because its head’s been long crushed, no — pulverized.
So, for the sake of God and you still breathing with time—- let go of the lie.”

We have to know the truth to recognize the lie. Lies melt in the face of truth. Their venom becomes harmless. “Is not this thing in my right hand a lie?” Isaiah 44:20

“The bottom line, Lie-Crushing Truth is simply this:
I am loved … because I am chosen by Jesus.
I am known … because I am named by Jesus.
I am fearless … because I am safe in Jesus.
I am brave … because I am always with Jesus.” (Voskamp)

What lies do you face? Learn what the Truth says about them. Repeat it, out loud if you need to.

Shake off the snake.
Let go of the Lie.