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Standing on holy ground

 

 

P1020396In the western world, we often defer respect to our guests when they enter our homes. If a guest starts to remove their shoes at the door, more often than not they may be greeted with, “Oh don’t bother; leave them on by all means.” But not so in Korea.

 

Our traditional Korean guesthouse featured an inner courtyard surrounded by sleeping rooms and a common kitchen. Before entering the rooms we were instructed to remove our shoes and walk in slippers or socks. The same instructions were given when we entered traditional style restaurants. It seems it is a sign of great disrespect to ignore this rule. In fact, we westerners are considered backward when allowing shoes that have trod through who-knows-what to also enter the intimate setting of one’s home.

 

Sacred ground is not to be violated. It is not to be trampled on carelessly. In years past, American churches used to be regarded as hallowed ground and treated with a measure of reverence and respect. In recent years, respect has been deferred to the guests in a ‘come as you are’ atmosphere to encourage people back into the churches. Korean temples and historic palaces still retain the atmosphere of historic respect and maintain the no shoes rule (though shoes are allowed in the courtyards).

 

I remember a Promise Keeper’s event where Jack Hayford invited 70,000 men to remove their shoes in the Twin’s stadium while he read the account of Moses’s encounter with God at the burning bush.

 

“Do not come any closer,” God said. “Take off your sandals, for the place where you are standing is holy ground.” Exodus 3:5

 

Jack asked us to quietly reflect on where our feet had been earlier that day – in the bathroom, on the street, in places where filth and decay lay hidden from our view. And where have our minds been? What unclean thoughts have we entertained? With what impure and unkind regard have we considered those around us? All these things cling to us and keep us from entering a pure setting without infecting it. We were also asked on what basis do we come before God? On the basis of our good deeds or special accomplishments? On the basis of our gifts or talents? I greatly appreciate the invitation to come to God “just as I am,” but sometimes need to be reminded that this is not a casual “buddy time” encounter. Yes, Jesus is my friend, but he is also my Lord.

 

And so we were invited to symbolically remove our shoes, and not just our shoes but also to remove the attitude of self-righteousness and pride that so often cling to us, to bow down and approach the holy ground of God solely on the basis of Who He Is and on What He Has Done.

 

Take time to stand on holy ground today. If God gets your attention, He will change the way you walk before Him… with or without shoes.

 

 

Is doing what seems to be right a good idea?

“In those days Israel had no king; all the people did whatever seemed right in their own eyes.”Judges 21:25

Imagine a society where everyone did what seemed right in their eyes. One thinks traffic laws should be obeyed; another thinks those laws should be bent to the particular situation. One determines it is okay to seize the opportunity presented to them regardless of the effects on others. What is right in these situations is determined relative to what each person stood to gain.

Especially since the advent of ‘situational ethics’ across our country’s college campuses in the 60s and 70s, we’ve seen a turn toward relativism and tolerance toward everything except that to which we are intolerant: no crosses in a Veteran’s cemetery, no nativities on display, “God” is allowed but “Jesus” is not. Songs about Kwanza and Hanukkah are allowed but not songs about Jesus. Just this week, a Wisconsin school insisted that the words to Silent Night be changed in the school concert, to remove the religious references.

A few months back, Pope Francis’ interview with atheist Italian journalist Eugenio Scalfari was perceived by some to indicate a turn toward relativism: a belief that everyone must indeed do what is right in their own minds. Asked if there is a single vision of good, and who decides, Francis says:

“Each of us has a vision of good and of evil. We have to encourage people to move towards what they think is good . . . Everyone has his own idea of good and evil and must choose to follow the good and fight evil as he conceives them. That would be enough to make the world a better place.”

What do you think? Would the world be a better place if everyone moved toward what they thought is good? Can we coexist peacefully in a society that was truly tolerant of differing beliefs? Can we maintain our adherence to what we each consider to be right while demonstrating extraordinary respect of each other as we each seek to discover and better understand the truth that is always true? Can you imagine ‘peace on earth’ without this?