Tag Archives: stay focused

Staying focused

 

 

It’s not uncommon to hear about people who have car or pedestrian accidents due to being distracted. If staying ‘in touch’ is really all that urgent, maybe we should consider getting a ‘”seeing eye person” to guide us safely through our day!

 

Of course, the truth is staying THAT much in touch is not only unnecessary but it robs us of staying in touch with our surroundings! Have you ever had someone come to visit you and then proceed to spend most of their time checking their phone for messages? It’s not a feeling of being valued or honored is it?  You both miss out on the fullness of each other’s company when one’s attention is constantly drawn away.  I confess, I’ve been guilty of “being there but not all there.” It seems I have to continually train my wandering mind to stay focused in the moment.

 

Most of us would likely confess that we do the same with God. We start with a prayer, praising Him or interceding for others, and before we know it, our mind has wandered off track to some completely unrelated matter. And we find that our attempt to enter God’s presence and draw close to Him has fallen short. As a result , we miss out on the benefits of His presence.  We trade time with our Creator for some whimsical thought or needless worry.

 

If you’ve ever made a purchase that didn’t satisfy you know the feeling of missing out. You realize it was a bad trade of hard-earned money for something of lesser value. What do you do in such a situation? If you can’t exchange the item, hopefully you learn from the experience and make a wiser decision next time. Unfortunately, we can exchange or redeem the time we’ve wasted. It will never return to us. But we can make better decisions. If your mind wanders while in the presence of a friend, apologize and redress your full attention to the person.

 

Do the same thing with God. Distractions happen. Acknowledge it and get back in the game with Him. He IS your seeing eye person and will guide you to finding meaning and joy in your life.

 

“Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior and my hope is in you all day long.” Psalm 25:5

 

 

Practicing the presence of God

 

 

 

 

When do we go to God? Why do we seek His presence? Probably it is often for help in some difficult situation we face. Sometimes it is for peace and solace in the middle of an oppressing storm. Sometimes we turn to God on behalf of our friends and loved ones or to confess our wayward ways.

 

God honors all these. In fact, perhaps more than anything else, He just wants us to spend time with Him. He doesn’t need us, yet values a personal relationship with us.   But practicing the presence of God is a discipline that requires guidance throughout the day. Without it you will likely find every little thing drawing your attention away and in the process, forgetting who you really are and why you are so busy anyway.

 

Does it sometimes feel like your visit with God in the morning is to get your marching orders and then you report back to Him at night?  The problem is, we need His guidance throughout the day too. That is why He gave us the Holy Spirit, so we would have access to His power, wisdom, grace, and truth moment by moment. God never intended you to take marching orders and then face the battle all alone.  We need to practice the presence of God in our moment by moment lives to stand firm and focused.

 

But in our busy lives, how do we stay focused? It may help to use simple post-it-note reminders to draw your attention from the mundane to the One who loves you dearly, the One who wants to guide you safely through your day.  Putting notes in your car, on your computer, on the bathroom mirror, TV, book stand, and refrigerator (etc) will draw your attention to your God and prompt you to thank Him and seek His guidance. You have so many transition moments in each day between one task and another that can serve as opportunities to acknowledge God. Learning the discipline of one and two-word prayers may usher in His presence during those times. (We might find value in this at prayer meetings too, instead of filling the air with endless words.) Daniel set aside seven times each day to stay connected with God. You can too: when you rise, at each meal, at morning and afternoon break times, and before you go to sleep. The number of times is probably not so important as your desire to turn to God throughout the day.

 

Seek His presence. Find His power and His plan for your life.

 

“I will praise the Lord, who counsels me;      even at night my heart instructs me.  I keep my eyes always on the Lord.     With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.

You make known to me the path of life;     you will fill me with joy in your presence,     with eternal pleasures at your right hand.” Psalm 16:7-8,11