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That one thing that speaks to your heart

Have you ever read a whole book or watched a whole movie (or maybe listened to a whole sermon!) only to remember ONE poignant line that really spoke to you? Actually, I think that is perfectly fine and to be commended. When I used to do all day seminars and consulting, I would often tell my audience that if they remembered and applied just one single ONE concept that improved their life, it would pay the tuition for the whole day. I don’t know about you, but I have a hard time fully incorporating the “7 essentials” of successful living or “14 ways to improve your life.” As for me, focusing on intentionally improving one or two things at a time is about my limit.

In fact, I still tend to summarize the primary point(s) of each chapter I read and then the one or two most important points that spoke to me from the whole book. I find myself intentionally listening for ‘that one line’ from a movie that speaks to my heart. For example, Facing the Giants is a film about football and faith. But apart from the football theme, the line that spoke to my heart was when the coach’s wife, in the depth or her disappointment, turned to God and said, “And still I will trust you.”

You might find yourself thinking similarly about a special place or time that remains so special to you. What special quality about that memory speaks so deeply to you? And how can you strive to achieve a similar experience right where you are now? Instead of looking back to the past for happiness, how can you carry those special ‘lessons learned’ to the present and enjoy them all your life? Even Jesus summarized God’s message to us in two commands to remember and apply to our daily lives: Love God and love others!

Similarly, you might think about a person who you find ministers to your soul when they are near. Of all the characteristics that describe them, what is at the essence of their being that speaks peace or joy to you? And how can you incorporate that same essence into who you are?

Our lives are filled with an immense amount of information, data, experiences, and emotions. Choosing to remember and maintain the essential few builds us up and strengthens and encourages us. It allows us to use our blessings to bless others.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8

The Secret of Life

In the movie City Slickers, the tough guy Curly turns to Mitch and asks him, “Do you know what the secret of life is?” Holding up a finger he answers his own question saying, “This.” Mitch asks, “Your finger?” Ignoring him Curly replies, “One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and the rest (doesn’t matter at all).” (Paraphrased) Mitch presses on asking, “But what’s ‘the one thing’?” Curly answers, “That’s what you have to find out.”

Have you discovered ‘the one thing’ in your life? That thing which, at the end of life, and through it, matters the very most to you?

Leadership guru and former pastor John Maxwell talks about how our lives are summed up in just 6-7 words…those words that will fit on our tombstone. He adds, “You can either let someone else choose them when you die or you can choose them now and live your life by them.”

I used to have a book of Yankee epitaphs, real inscriptions on the tombstones of New Englanders. Some of them were silly and some were serious. One said, “I TOLD you I was sick!” Another one was a boulder that simply said, “This one’s on me.” One of my favorites was the one written about John Pease who enjoyed MORE than seven words:
“Under the sod and under the trees
Lies the body of Jonathan Pease.
Pease is not there, there’s only the pod.
Pease shelled out and went to God.”

If someone else looked at your activities, how would they summarize your life?
Sure made a lot of money.
Was a dedicated worker.
One of the busiest people in town.
Keeper of a cute and tidy house.
Best bridge player in the community.
Devoted to family.
Loved unconditionally.
Loved God – Loved Others.
Faithful – Beloved- Missed

What words would you choose to reflect your ‘one thing?’ Choose these now and live by them and you might just discover the secret of life.

“Live a life worthy of the calling you have received.”
Ephesians 4:1b