Monthly Archives: January 2014

Do you want to be a “better person”?

Have you ever found yourself asking God to make you a better person, to help you to gradually become more and more like him? It seems an honorable thought at first blush, and yes, our life as a believer is a journey of ever-growing and maturing in Christ. But God has already provided more.

When Christ rescued us, when he paid the price for our sins on the cross, he redeemed us fully. He didn’t give us a temporary ‘salvation permit’ that we would have to someday convert to a full license to join his kingdom. He gave us his all so we would see ourselves wholly (and holy) redeemed. There is nothing we can do, no effort or achievement we can accomplish that would make us more precious in his sight than we already are. In his eyes we are already presented without blemish. We are perfectly his. Yes, he sees us in our imperfect state, but he doesn’t regard us as such. If so, Christ’s work on the cross would have been incomplete. But it isn’t; we were wholly transformed into a new creation in his eyes. Paul tells us that whoever is in Christ IS now a new creation. The old has gone, the new has come! Our job is to accept that reality and to act as if it is true (because it is). Our job is not to continually strive to become better Christians but to be the children he declares us to already be.

Dan Stone used an illustration in his book, The Rest of the Gospel, that is helpful. Take a blank sheet of paper and draw a line from left to right across the middle of the page. Under the line write words that describes how you see yourself, your physical being and your often tumultuous soul: failure, never good enough, always sinning…etc. Now above the line, write words that describe how God sees you and your spirit which is already united with his spirit: His precious child, redeemed, fully his, holy. etc. You see, if you have asked Jesus to live in your heart, he gives you his holy spirit to guide and comfort you and to tell you the truth about who you are in his sight. When you ask the spirit to fill your life and lead you, Jesus sees his spirit at work when he looks at you. Believe it and act on what you believe. You are indeed precious in his sight.

Yes, there is also a transformational process of becoming more and more like him and yes, we won’t fully achieve that until we get to heaven. But learn to see by faith who you are “above the line”. as Paul says, reckon it to be true. Continually lean into him and experience him drawing close to you.

Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. James 4:7-8

Resolutions That Work!

A certain wife made a resolution for her overweight husband that he would eat more healthy foods. No more cheeseburgers and fries; no more donuts and cakes. Being a loving husband he obliged her. Several years later they both died in a car accident. Once in heaven they were confronted by rows and rows of banquet tables as far as the eye could see. Each table was loaded with fried foods, chocolates, cakes, donuts, and pies. The husband looked at his wife and said, “Honey, if it weren’t for you I could have been here ten years ago!”

Do you make New Year’s Resolutions?

I remember making yearly lists of things I wanted to do differently: eat better, eat less, exercise more, learn a skill, finish any number of endless projects… But of course, along with a well-intentioned multitudes of others, I often let my resolutions go unmet as I went back to life-as-it-has-always-been. The tyranny of the daily schedule and personal desires trumped my desire to change.

Maybe it is the fact that cancer has a way of getting hold of one’s attention in a fresh and unique way. Or more so that it has a way of us letting GOD get our attention. It leaves me thinking about resolutions that are actually worth pursuing. Resolutions that speak to our heart are ones that actually work.

One key to making resolutions work is seeing in your mind’s eye the benefit of sticking with it and the negative consequence of giving up. Imagine how your life (and the world around you) would be forever impacted by intentionally looking for ways to appreciate, value, and encourage others every day. How might your life (and others) be changed for the better if you decided not to say anything bad about anyone else, ever? What if you gave up negative sarcasm and interacted with others as Jesus did? What if you determined to use transition times (those interlude moments between tasks or appointments) to thanking God for your many blessings? Developing an attitude of gratitude may increase your years and your joy even more than a diet plan.

Listen to your heart. Better yet, listen to God’s heart as he desires to bless you with his presence. Instead of always striving to do more, make this the year you determined to BE more…be more in tune with God’s best for you!

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”
Jeremiah 29:11-13