How do you feel when you behave poorly or make a mistake and the person nearby, instead of getting upset, responds patiently? It’s a humbling and yet good feeling isn’t it? Guess what? That’s how it feels when YOU are patient with yourself and with those around you.
God is patient with us so we can be patient with ourselves.
The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9
When I think back on my life and on this verse, there are a number of images that flash on the big screen; times when I screwed up big time. But like the loving Father He is, God was patient with me. Even now when I am tired of waiting, tired of the medical routines, tired of being tired, He gently and patiently waits for me to draw close and get HIS perspective on things… and most importantly His forgiveness.
Patience has a way of teaching us to forgive ourselves…and others.
Yes, sometimes things have to be just right, and there is little room for error. But most of the time, don’t you think there is room for a little patience and forgiveness? And in that space, you always find a measure of peace.
Postscript: stay tuned for transplant update in Saturday’s post.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2
Such great words for our world today and for me personally! We are praying your transplant goes well and for no complications or infections. God goes before you.
HE will be with you. We are praying for you. Wonderful post today. John
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Thanks I needed to hear this. I called a name that came to the lips before my heart and soul had a chance to slow down and stop from saying it. I immediately reacted to my interpretation of someone attacking my abilities/disabilities. I cried, I asked Jesus and the other person for forgiveness, because that was not what I wanted to be. Does that make sense? No patience…ugh. This isn’t always rainbows and roses, is it!?
Yes Emily, it is a process for each of us. And along the way we find many resting places to forgive ourselves and others. But more and more, the character of patience begins to define your life. We do this quite imperfectly. But Christ In Us (Col 1:27) gradually has His way and traces us patience and peace. Thanks for sharing your example. We all learn from this. BT
We are cheering for you! And, we are praying for you as well. 🙂