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Mocking and sarcasm

 

Whether it be sports, politics, religion, or any other divisive arena in life, there are those who love to mock their opponents or anyone who disagrees with them. We learned it as children and sometimes carry it with us as adults. Whether it’s the Facebook posts we share or the opinionated lives we live, mocking others with a sarcastic attitude is a prevalent activity.

 

We see it in many cross sections of society, including some Christians who fall into this trap. But is it right behavior for Christians? It may be permissible, but is it beneficial? When looking at how you and I should conduct our lives, a good place to start is asking what the Bible says. I searched the Bible for the word “mock” and found 72 references…NONE of them commended by God. Always, mockers are portrayed as wicked and evil. Never are they presented as worthy or righteous.

 

Another place to look as an example of how we should behave is the life and character of Jesus. Where do you find that Jesus mocked and made fun of others? I don’t find any. Oh, for sure he sometimes called them out, particularly the hypocritical religious leaders who violated their responsibility to the people and to God, but he didn’t stoop to mocking them with sarcastic attacks. He simply presented the truth. Shouldn’t we do what Jesus did?

 

You might think to yourself, “Hey lighten up. It’s just a little fun.” But it’s more than that. It grows on you and starts to become your identity. People come to expect you to be witty, mocking, and sarcastic. It changes who you are. Putting others down never lifts you up. I know because that used to be my life; characterized with a biting wit,  based on poking fun at people instead of presenting a solution, mocking instead of making a difference as God’s advocate, being sarcastic instead of sincere.

 

There’ nothing wrong with having fun, but let’s not do it at the expense of others, even our enemies and opponents. It’s not scriptural and it isn’t beneficial for any of us. We want to live lives focused on and honorable to God. For our own sake and the sake of those watching us, let’s say “no!” tomocking and sarcasm!  If friends ask what’s up, tell them you’ve decided it doesn’t flow with the bible.,maybe you’ll be a wake call to someone else.

 

“It’s not what goes into your mouth that defiles you; you are defiled by the words that come out of your mouth.” Matthew 15:11

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:29-32

 

Happy is the one who follows the right path

 

 

 

Happy is the man who does not follow the advice of the wicked or take the path of sinners or join a group of mockers. Psalm 1:1

 

Being on the right path matters. Consistently choosing the right path requires a compass. What compass are you using these days? Not just for big decisions, but for the ones that define your character in daily choices?

 

I heard so many say at the end of the political campaign season that they were tired of all the negative ads, the bitterness and mockery. And yet, after the election there are many who continue to want to mock the victors and those who lost.

 

Do you ever recall a time when Jesus made fun of or ridiculed people? Oh yes, he called out the pretentious religious leaders who weren’t following God, but he didn’t mock them. Neither should we mock others. There’s nothing good to be gained by our sarcastic and biting wit.  There might be a wicked sense of self-righteous satisfaction in giving someone a piece of our mind. But be warned, we all only have so many pieces left! Consider whether you want to give someone a piece of your mind or have peace of mind and be happy.

 

We each will come across many other path choices today:

  • The path of being focused on our own schedule or the one that pays attention to the needs of those around us
  • The path of putting others down or the path of lifting them up
  • The path of letting little things frustrate us or the path of finding peace in God
  • The path of anxiety or the path of faith
  • The path of making a living or the path of making a worthwhile life

 

Let Jesus be your compass in choosing the right path today.