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Beyond revenge

Mandy Patinkin may be remembered for many roles in his Hollywood career, but probably none more so than his portrayal of the Spanish swordsman, Inigo Montoya in the film classic The Princess Bride. Montoya had dedicated his entire life to the revenge of his father, killed years ago by the evil Count Rugen. The line most remembered by fans is, “Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.” But Patinkin shares his favorite line which comes at the end of the film. Having completed his quest of killing the Count, Inigo remarks, “I have been in the revenge business for so long, now that it’s over, I don’t know what to do with the rest of my life.”

Can you associate with that? Is there a compelling sense of bitterness, hatred, revenge, or other negative emotion that tears your life apart? Something you have determined to carry to your grave? A person you have refused to forgive? Or maybe a negative behavior you know is not right, one that keeps you from experiencing God’s best for you, but you keep falling back into it? If so, I encourage you to give it up. Completely. Surrender it all to God and reconcile with others. Feel the weight of this terrible burden slip off your shoulders. Feel the renewal of your heart. Experience what it is like to take a full breath and feel the refreshment and freedom that comes only from forgiveness and turning to God. Turn from the emptiness of what is eating you up and taste the goodness of God, being filled with his grace.

Living Life In the Past

One of our favorite parodies of all time is The Princess Bride which features the character Inigo Montoya. When Montoya was a lad his father, a fine sword craftsman, was killed by the evil Count Rugen who refused to pay the already agreed upon price for a fine sword. And so, Montoya devoted his entire life to the pursuit of swordsmanship and on taking revenge on this evil man. The bitterness and hatred he felt fueled itself, growing larger and larger until it consumed his every breathing moment…every moment of course, when he wasn’t in a despair-induced drunken stupor.

Eventually, after many years, Montoya was able to execute his revenge, challenge the murderer to a duel, and complete his life long ambition of achieving revenge. But he was left with a sense of disappointment and lack of purpose. He comments reflectively to Wesley, ‘You know, [it’s very strange], I have been in the revenge business so long, now that it’s over, I don’t know what to do with the rest of my life.’

Does that story resonate with you? Have you devoted part, or maybe all, of your life to feeling you aren’t good enough, or to being envious of others or regretful or something you did or something done to you? Have anger, bitterness, hatred, taken up residence in your heart because of something that happened in the past? And now it is affecting both your present life and threatening your future? Are your past hurts keeping your candle from burning brightly? Our past has some influence in shaping how we got to where we are, but it doesn’t have to decide our future. You are free to make a choice to bury the past; let it go. It will not be solved. But your future path, ah that is something for you to decide . . . today. Put on compassion, kindness, humility…and beyond all these things, put on love.

“And so, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful. Colossians 3:12-15