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Does God hear our prayers?

 

We pray and pray. Sometimes we pray our whole life and don’t see the results of our prayers. We may wonder, “Does God hear my prayers?”

 

If we’re to believe God’s Word, we need to believe it all. It is his forever truth and he is the great promise keeper. He promises “the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” (James 5:16) Elijah prayed for fire to come down from heaven and it came. David prayed to be delivered from his enemies and he was. The disciples prayed for boldness to preach the gospel, no matter what happened, and they received it. Jesus himself prayed for his Father’s will to be done – and it was. All evidence that God hears and answers our prayers.

 

Jesus told his followers, “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you.” (John 15:7) Some false preachers of the prosperity gospel treat this promise like a genie’s magic lamp. Read the words again. There is a condition in Jesus’ promise, an ‘IF.’

 

Some like to think that God sent his Son so everyone would be saved. But what the bible says is “whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” There’s a condition to the promise. We’re used to conditional promises: you get paid IF you do the work, you lose weight IF you follow your diet, you reap a harvest of veggies IF you plant the seeds. We like to think that it’s different when it comes to prayer, but it’s not. The answer to prayers sometimes depends on the condition of our heart.

 

1 John 5:14 – “If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.”

Psalm 66:18 – “If I regard wickedness in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.”

 

Sometimes we don’t receive the answers to prayer because the condition of our heart is not right. Sometimes it is because we lack faith. We ask, but we don’t really believe God is willing or able to do what he says.  Sometimes God’s answer depends on the actions of others. He will not ‘make’ someone love you the way you want to be loved anymore than he will ‘make’ you act against your own will. Sometimes we live out the consequences of our own thoughts and actions: the sin is forgiven, but the consequences live on. Sometimes God answers prayers but we fail to recognize it because we want something else. He doesn’t give us what we want because he knows what we need and has something better for us. We want only ice cream and cookies for dinner but he offers real nourishment for our bodies and our souls.

 

There are multiple reasons why God might not answer every prayer or answer it in the way we ask. But if we believe God exists and accept his Son, we can be assured he hears our prayer and will be faithful to respond – regardless of how it seems. Maybe it would help our prayer life if, in addition to asking for all those ‘things’ we desire, we primarily focused our prayers on drawing closer to God . . . to see him more clearly, love him more dearly, and follow him more nearly. Would not our Heavenly Father be pleased to hear such a prayer from his beloved children? May this be the true desire of our hearts!

 

 

Awake or asleep?

 

 

We never know exactly when we fall asleep at night. At some point we close our eyes to the world. Our heart rate slows down and our body temperature decreases. Reality fades away as we enter a world of dreams. In a deep sleep we may even get out of bed and not be aware of our activities.

 

Falling asleep spiritually follows a similar pattern. We become tired of living with purpose and close our eyes to our true calling. Apathy sets in and compromising situations start to take on more appeal. We think to ourselves, “It can’t be bad if it makes me so happy.” If we don’t wake up to our senses we will find our spiritual temperature lowering. What used to be a burning passion for God’s ways cools to a lukewarm condition. And this dangerous coolness allows us to slip into a deeper trance-like sleep where reality blurs into a foggy road where we easily lose our way. Like Samson of old, we allow the Delilah’s of our age to lull us to sleep.  From an outsider’s perspective we may look the same, but inside we find ourselves drifting further and further from our purposed path.

 

The good news is that just as living in compromise makes us drowsy to God’s calling, so does His Spirit consistently urge us to wake up. There are numerous practical ways to stay spiritually ‘awake.’

  • Examine yourself as David did. “Search me O God. Know my heart.”
  • Be accountable to someone in whom you can trust to be honest about your struggles.
  • Stay grounded in God’s Word. Beyond rote memorization, earnestly seek to apply wisdom practically to your life.
  • Rest! Really rest. An effective method of not falling asleep at inappropriate times is to rest when you need to. Jesus is calling you: “Come to me all of you who are weary, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)  Cease striving. Be still. Know that He is God. (Psalm 46:10) Remain intently in Jesus. Your accomplishments mean nothing without Him.  (John 15:4)

 

“Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Matthew 26:41

 

 

Plant a garden

 

 

P1020902One of the things that quickly impressed us while in Korea was how well the people make use of the land available to them. Small fields the size of backyards were filled with rice. Vacant lots in the city grew beans, cabbage, peppers, radishes (the size of watermelons), and even corn. Hills along roadways and bike paths were abundant with pumpkins, beans and peppers. Even the inches between a storefront and the street contained pots of peppers or beans. Clearly the relationship the Koreans have with their food is a tight-knit one and their concept of stewardship well understood.

 

Whether you garden at home or at the grocery store, we are all called to cultivate and share our other ‘gardens’. Jesus tells us in John 15 that He is the vine and we are the branches. We are to bear fruit, not in our own power, but simply by remaining in Him. If we remain connected to Him throughout the day, and not leave Him sitting by our devotional spot at home, He promises we will bear much fruit. It is after all, our primary job: remain in Him; bear fruit.

 

Every ‘space’ in our day can be cultivated to bear fruit if it is connected to its life-giving source. That is why it is essential to stay connected to God throughout the day, not just in those brief moments of prayer. The living vine gives life only to branches that remain attached. Everything else is superfluous. Everything not related to bearing fruit gets pruned. We might take great pleasure in the amount of leaves we generate or the expansiveness of our active growing cycles. But all our ambitions and activities, unless they bear fruit, are all cut off and thrown in the fire.

 

How do you remind yourself to stay attached to the vine? You might set “appointments” in your day planner to acknowledge God. You might put up visual signs or notes to draw your attention to your life-giving source. You might use every transition point in your day, when you move from one task to another, to draw near to God. You might train yourself to see others around you as reminders to see God in a new way.

 

However you choose to remind yourself, stay connected. Grow your garden and bear fruit wherever you are today. Use every space available.

 

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5

 

 

The Battle for Your Mind

The other day, I was watching a documentary on my iPad about the holy sites of Israel. I noticed a reflection on the iPad screen so I was also seeing a reflection of myself watching the movie. And my vision, impaired anyway by the chemo effects still, alternated between seeing first my image, then the movie, then my image again. The constant back and forth was distracting, but as you would expect, soon I was able to concentrate on the image of the documentary, tuning out the other reflection most of the time.

Isn’t that how it is with most of our days? There is so much stimulus around us, sights and sounds, an emerging crisis, and other demands on our attention. These medications I take help me to eat for which I am really thankful. But they also wire me so that I have to fight just to remain calm. Every day seems a present a battle for our mind.

Listening to worship music helps me a lot and, when I can concentrate on reading, recalling what God has to say to me through His Word is an immense help. One of my favorite passages in the gospel of John offers the solution: remain in Jesus. We really can’t accomplish anything substantial or truly lasting unless we stay connected to him. Like the vines that nourish the grapes in our backyard, we have to train our mind and heart to stay connected to him.

What are you willingly to do to fight the battle for your heart and mind and to stay connected to your creator throughout your distracting day?

John 15:5 “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” – Jesus