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The legacy of our character

Eric Liddle was the world record breaking Scottish athlete who won the 400 meter race in the 1924 Summer Olympics, as celebrated in the famous movie, Chariots of Fire. But unlike so many egotistical celebrity athletes of our time, Liddle was known for being, “Ridiculously humble in victory, utterly generous in defeat.” A missionary to China as well as world renown athlete, Liddle is remembered for his gentle spirit and “complete surrender”, in reference to how he had given his life to his God.

Thinking about characteristics, I remember being ever so smart in the eyes of my young children and then becoming ‘dumb as rocks’ when they grew to be teenagers. I’m glad to say that later, as they grew up, I became wise again. 🙂 Of course, those changing views were likely as much due to the changing perspectives of my children as any significant changes I had made personally. 🙂

What characteristics or attributes are you best known for? Which of these will be the legacy you leave for those who follow? The answer may relate to what you do, but most certainly, your lasting legacy will be based more on who you are. It will be a reflection of your relationship with God and with others. It will reflect qualities like:
Faithfulness
Kindness
Goodness
Generosity
Gentleness
Humility
Enduring hope
Joyfulness
Perseverance
Peace
Patience
Caring
Integrity
Self control
Unconditional love that never gives up

None of us hit the mark all the time. But over time, we are known for our inner qualities, these special God-given gifts that he nurtures and matures over time. Today is the day to decide what lasting legacy we will leave. Today is the day to decide how we want to present ourself to our loving and eternal heavenly father. In everything you do, live a life of character that builds ups and honors God and those around you.

“Well done good and faithful servant.” Matthew 25:23

Speak the truth

I think it was Jimmy Carter’s mother’ “Lillian,” who was being interviewed one day by a snippy young reporter known for twisting the truth in the articles she wrote. “Have you ever told a lie, Mrs Carter?” Asked the young reporter?” trying to get some dirt on the presidential family. Mrs Carter replied, “Well actually, yes… A few minutes ago, when I said It was nice to meet you.”

We laugh understandably at her reply. After all, how would you feel about someone who spoke sweetly to your face but unkindly to you when speaking to others? Or someone who gives one side of a story when talking with you but the other side when speaking to others? Their actions are considered two-faced and indicative of a lapse of integrity on their part, not to be trusted.

Living and speaking the truth becomes more challenging as our society wrestles and twists the meaning of truth. The United States Declaration of Independence acknowledges that “we hold these truths to be self-evident.” God’s truth, always considered to be absolute, has been challenged for the last 50+ years by universities that have professed that truth is relative and dependent on our interpretation of the situation. Recently, Google and Merriam-Webster have taken up to define the word “literally” in a nonliteral meaning: “Used to acknowledge that something is not literally true but is used for emphasis or to express strong feeling.” In other words, literally doesn’t mean literally in our new society.

But we are intended to live one true life that is consistent from one place and time to another, and consistent and honoring to God. And it is for our own benefit. Have you ever noticed that when you speak the truth you don’t have to worry about getting caught up in what you said to whom three weeks ago? 🙂

This is a basic leadership truth for living with integrity and respect of others: Always speak truth to all persons, with grace, and you will experience freedom.

What is the moral compass or plumb line that guides you in speaking and living with truth and integrity -with grace- each day and in all your interactions?

“To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Romans 8:31-32