Tag Archives: Colossians 3:12

Focusing on what is most important

 

We all know that to live a full and rewarding life, we need to focus on what is most important. And one of the most important is the simple expression of human kindness, even more important than what was on your agenda for the day. A recent news story from Argentina illustrates this:

 

Martin Passeri is a celebrated Argentine surfer who has five times grabbed the top prize in his country’s annual surfing championships. He was considered the favorite for winning this year’s contest too but he sacrificed it for something better: kindness.

 

You see, as the competition was about to begin, Passeri saw Nicolas Gallegos sitting in a wheelchair. Gallegos, a surfing buff, was paralyzed from the waist down at the age of 18 before he could learn to surf. Passeri asked Gallegos if he wanted to surf with him. Upon acceptance, Passeri strapped Gallegos onto his back and the two rode the first wave in together.

 

It isn’t clear whether he was disqualified or whether he took too long to help Gallegos onto the board, but the outcome was that the crowd favorite, Martin Passeri, gave up the championship for an act of human kindness.

 

When asked later, Passeri said he didn’t lose. In fact, he considered that wave the biggest triumph of his career.

 

Kindness is one of the fruits that are naturally produced from a Spirit led life.  Sometimes we’re invited to demonstrate kindness, like when someone asks you for help. Other times, we have to take our focus off our to-do list and pay attention to the needs of those around us and respond with God’s love. Often, the opportunity is fleeting, so be quick. Don’t miss the opportunity to bless and be blessed. When you see a need you can fill, do it. It may be the most important thing you do all day.

 

So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12

 

Patience with others and self: T Day +1

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A fruit tree is known by the fruit it bears. If it bears apples it is an apple tree. If it is a Kantuta, it resembles the national flower of Bolivia, not apples. Pretty simple, right? So what kind of fruit do YOU regularly bear in your life? The bible gives clear and practical advice about this. It says the fruit God wants to see in us is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self control. (Galatians 5:22-23) We will not likely demonstrate all this fruit all the time, but gradually over time, as we ask the Holy Spirit, He is faithful to make these become recognizable as our general character.

Looking at patience again today, how patient are you with your self? Do you drop something or bump into something and call yourself clumsy or some other negative term? Or do you simply admit a mistake and move on? In dealing with preserving self conversations do you constantly play negative self tapes describing how unworthy you are and listing all your faults, or do you quickly bring these to God and remember how He sees you as His beloved child?

Patience with self requires us to see ourselves in God’s eyes. If we belong to Him, we can have great patience with ourselves because He has so greatly been patient with us. When we confess our wrongs He instantly forgets them. This allows us to be patient with others, bearing them grace and not keeping a record of all their wrongs. Practicing patience with self and with others brings peace of mind and makes way for love and joy to grow in your life and in others’ lives. If I have wronged you, let me know; I need your forgiveness. If you have wronged me, I have already forgotten it.

Got patience? You could wait for a trial to produce it. But it is also a choice you can make right now, and each day.

 

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12